Hi everyone. My family and husband's family culture is on the opposite ends of the scale. His entire family is really loud and crude whereas my family is completely against exposing a baby towards such environments.his Mom comes over every week and speaks really loudly and crudely with the notion that baby should get used to her loud voice.my baby is barely 2 months old and every time his family comes over , my baby would be really cranky at night. I've tried to hint to my Husband about his family by telling him that we have to expose baby girl to the right environment and shower her with love. I don't know how should I approach this situation? I don't wish to come across as rude but I do wish to get the message across clearly.

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I agree with Vanessa. Have a chat with your husband about this. Find out what is his take to decide how best to tackle this. His family would be part of your daughter's life and it may be difficult to get them to change. Some compromising will be needed I suppose but it is best for you and your husband to discuss this first, and then having him talk to his family about it. For now, perhaps you can excuse yourself and baby into a separate room when they come over so that baby can get some rest. I reckon she is still sleeping most of the time since she is still young. Hang in there..

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