About do you guys husband so secretive when he was chatting with his aunt via by ws
As every time his aunt will whatsapp my husband and my husband super secretive saw me he quickly tells his aunt bye bye on the phone plus he even tell his aunt lots of things he didn’t want to tell me about it. I found it is so rude and ridiculous it seem like he doesn’t trust me as his wife I wonder why must he marry me in the first place?
How old is this aunt?
Seems like a Mother Son relationship. Wouldn’t be too worried
I think you should sit with him and try talking to him about your feelings. If this aunt is like a mum figure it is ok that he shares things with her- but yes as his wife you should know as much if not, more!Read more
It’s a typical mother in law situation. I don’t think you should stress about it. The more you think about it, the more it will bug you. Just let it slide above your head
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I’m sorry you have to go thru this. But please talk it out to your husband. I believe this flag belongs to the two of you, and you too, have a say in renting it out or not. Especially if your husband is behaving so suspiciously, I think better not rent it to this individual.Anonymous
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Do you believe in fate? Things happened for a reason. Whatever has happened is the past. Now, you’ve gotta look and move forward. Enjoy your pregnancy, try to manage your emotions and finances. Work out a financial plan with your hubby. Let him know, how much you need a month. If you need help, talk to your family, his family and him again. Take careAnonymous
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