infant care is not bad..the kids develop faster as they have an early start..as for pantangs..some apply some doesn't.. depends on your general knowledge and science..so choose wisely..as its your family future
Normal lah... My wife also cannot tahan my mother & I sometimes also cannot tahan my mother in law. Give & take lah, but agree you should send to childcare than deal with your mother in law 😂
If you leave your baby to her to take care, you kinda need to let her do it her way. If you cannot stand it, then send to infant care or a nanny Personally I would choose infant care.
I can relate as I’m having same issue as you. But I can’t complain too much unless I can take care of baby myself :( sometimes just have to close one eye as long as baby is fine.
Do what you think is best for your baby. You are the mother, not your MIL. Dont let her control everything. I think the price is not up to 1k if you both are wrking if I'm not wrong.
It's normal to feel bad about our inlaws' beliefs and it's okay not to follow them. Just be firm and do your own thing. You are the mother you know better.
Take your stand. Dont let in law step over you. Else u will lose the respect. If need to, remove kid from them. Being disrespected sucks big time. Going through now.
just send infant care for ur sanity, seriously. I put my older baby to PG care for me to take care of my infant.. get subsidy, both parents work will get it.. go pcf or mfs.
bring MIL when see PD and let's PD explain to her about solid. every child is different.. in the end when they child is older.. nobody ask when is your baby starting solid?
this is normal. you can decide what you want for the child - send infant care or mil take care. if mil take care, sometimes need to close 1 eye if it is not critical