Did you and your husband have a "chat" about how to parent and come up with some basic ground rules -- about bedtime routines, how to say no, discipline etc...or did you just play it by ear? I find that my husband and I often have very different perspectives on things like who should our kid have a playdate with, outdoor vs indoor time etc...how did you resolve your differences?

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It's very important that as parents we are united in setting the basic ground rules. Not being one in this would result to confusion and looking at one parent in a negative way (the one who chooses to discipline).

No, we just play ear by ear... Very hard to instill discipline as my husband will give in when my son throws tantrum in public, whereas I can tolerate his screaming, whining and nonsense in public.

we never plan we follow the nature..since i came from a broken family i try my best to shower my kids with loveand also plans a weekly family bonding to get the family together.

Yes we often do. However we end up in disagreement as well. But we try our best to be in the same team. So that it does not affect our kids too much.

when we want to have kids, we already agree that i will have the final say for the kids. he can suggests, but ultimately is all up to me

thanks

nks

yes