Honestly, I think it might really be because he might have a medical condition. Or that he is stressed and is not able to perform as well as he wish he could. My hubby is like that too. But I know he loves me a lot through other ways. He is sorry he can't perform like before as he's really tired from work and since he knows he can't do as well, he might as well not do it at all lest I feel even more disappointed if it's halfway.
Yes, sexless might seem unacceptable to you but if he genuinely cannot perform, do you give up on him? Try to seek help together with him. As a wife, do not let him handle this on his own and treat it like his own problem. You are with him now so be with him on this and help him gain back his confidence. Exercise with him and build up his stamina. Do not stress him out or be upset and angry when he can't do it because it'll only cause him to sink deeper into his own abyss.
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