pls help me mommies

my daughter 3 year old ready. but stil she dont know eat makanan kasar like whole bread, bread must hancur n give.. she wont chew, just telan all food.. milk aso she can't drink herself, i stil feed her n method she drinkin milk aso very different, she cant suck bottle nipple, i just press the bottle n give.. time god bottle is so soft... but i feel shame wen i feed her in front of my relation... since baby she can suck bottle nipple n drink but lama kelamaan she dont like to suck.. everyday i train her to suck the nipple bottle but she crying ..so pls help me mommies.. how to handle this.. gv me solution guys... hv anyone experience this situation.. ?