Childcare or grandparents for 20mo? what would you choose and do you have any experience to share. On one hand I feel that grandparents love is good for my child but on the other hand I feel that CC will help my child to be less coddled and more independent and adventurous (eg grandparents carry lots, don't bring him to play group due to zika, helps him too much and give him little room for exploration and me-time) as he he seems like a rather cautious boy. He's very well socialised so that's not thr main reason for gg CC. should i wait til he is older for CC ? is it cruel to put him in at such a young age?

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To reply to your query above , I think lo will be happier with grandparents than going cc ( for now. My lo has been going for 1 mth. Maybe he'll be happier soon. Idk). Someone ( older!) told me , we think that sending kids to cc they will learn more etc - it's true , but with grandparents they feel more secure. If I had a choice I'd put lo in abt 3yo. Or send to half day cc ? Idk. Btw, no aggression yet

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7y ago

thank u !yea agree they r happier with grandparents haha