Relationship with husband

Any change in relationship with Husband after having baby? We tend to argue more often and relationship is very sour now

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Its a transitional phase so i guess its normal for it to be heated. Youre both slowly getting into your new roles and now theres someone else dependent on the both of you hence the seriousness of things. Give it some time and try to remain as rational as you can. You need to have good teamwork for it to work out.

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Yup, we faced that too. Got to keep an open communication and always say thank you when they help around. May seem like nothing much but we tend to take things for granted after awhile... Esp now that there’s a lil one who is dependent on both of you.. Jiayou!

Yes we do get arguments now and then due to taking care of our LO but we will always try to resolve it subsequently. I can say this is part and parcel of parenthood.

Hi, These ups and downs are part of life in relationship so don't worry about it. But we would always talk and try to resolve it

Yes, it's normal especially after having baby. After a while, both of u will understand each other more. No worries.

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Hi... you might find this article informative https://sg.theasianparent.com/rekindle-relationships-just-4-minutes-2

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Yes. Need to "re-learn" the new dynamic as a couple. Take a break from kids now and then to have dates if possible.

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Its normal to have some miscommunication between ur partner esp if both first time parents

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It's common coz extra responsibilities etc...Do try and communicate and work things out.

Yes but talk to each other without fighting Maybe head out for a date