After the birth of second baby last year my relationship with my husband has lost steam. We ate not as sexually active as we earlier were. How do we rekindle the romance with a 3 and and 1yo in the house?

You should reignite the love between you two as youngsters do. Or apply the same antics that young ones do. Go out on dates, lunches, send messages, spend as much time together, watch movies, cook together, give each other a massage, go for weekend outings, do whatever you think is missing in your marriage. Call your mum or relatives to babysit and have alone time with your husband. You don;t have to do anything just be in your elements and feel young again. There's no need to behave like parents with each other, be like lovers and when you behave like one, romance will happen. http://www.goasksuzie.com/7-secrets-to-rekindle-love-and-intimacy#.V5EWfs5UST8 http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/rekindle-marriage/