Breastfeeding mum here. just tried having Sex with hubby but I am really damn dry (horny but dry). I have tried lubricant but it doesn't really help. (Using Durex). Any advice for me on how to increase my wetness - as it makes penetration and having sex very uncomfortable and spoils my mood. Ps- I am very attracted to my hubby Pps - I desire to have sex with him (so not dreading it)

Tried foreplay? Normally it will take 15-30 mins to turn women on and able to enjoy it. Before foreplay starts, put lots of lubricant to enhance the play, will helps. Create a nice environment, lid up candles or diffuse some nice eo to bring up the moment. As bf mom, I noticed I was quite tensed up hence will affect the level of wetness. I am not sure about you, but I am so tensed up because so busy latching and pumping. Once i weaned off, I noticed my level of wetness seems came back automatically..