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Hi all,My baby is currently going 7 month old. Me and my hub never had sex since Im pregnant until now. Is this normal?Ive gone back to pre pregnancy figure but sometimes he made comment like- your breast are ugly now (Im bf mom)- where your firm and nice buttock gone toIt really depress me alot. I had tried to initiate but got push away a few times.And he doesnt seems be bothering about me and baby. Most of the time hes gaming away. Totally changed person after I give birth. I tried talking to him a few times but it just dont work. He will say OK everytime but end up same nothing change. He dont even kiss me anymore. Does this means our marriage gonna come to an end soon?

Shi Ya Lee · Accepted Answer

Confident lies in own self. Doll up and make the best of you. Having a good figure and least expectation from the husband but live for your self and change better for your self. Ur values will still be there dont worry

Jasmine Tan · Answer

Sorry to hear that, perhaps you can ask your husband to go out for a meal and talk about it, tell him exactly how you feel...It could be your husband is feeling stressed at work, exhausted etc.

Anonymous · Answer

To think that he is stressed at wrk or exhausted, is WRONG cz he didnt even kiss you. Let alone bother abt you and kid. This is the period whr husbands are needed the most. The healing period whr husbands need to attend wife's and baby's needs. He obviously doesn't care. And he says they're ugly? Walliioww. How dare he says that. I do not know how to deal with this nicely but i will surely confront him. But first you try to doll up first and then confront him and ask what is the problem here. Does he wanna wrk things out or not. 7 mths is tooooooo long sis. Something's not right. If it is his gaming addict then ask him why is gaming more important than family. I hope things get better for you. But seriously your husband needs to wake up. Not even a kiss is bad enough. At least a hug. My gaaawwd i cnnt stand this kindof guyslah. If i know him i would slap him some senses left to right.