Will want some opinions on my situation.

So apparently i fought with my hubby because of a post about a wife complaining how hard to have a particular hub in social media, i merely share and quote about how hard being a mother is. And he got triggered just because he think im saying him which im not? However, rather than privately tell me and i could've delete and apologise as i didn't realise how he felt. He chose to comment on the post to start a fight. He say mean things and emotionally threaten to divorced again just because he got triggered. This is not the first time he emotionally threaten me to divorce over small things. After i explain so much, he still think he's right and every replies he gave me is all about him and his pride & mentioned i show no respect rather than solving the issue by understanding what im trying to say too. He also thinks all he might be A LITTLE OVERBOARD to mention divorce for that few times. Im tired of this kind of bullshit from him honestly. We haven been talking for 3 days even tho i texted him yesterday regards on this matter and i believe i am not in a wrong to be angry at him too. Advice and thoughts? bcus im tired of giving a fuck on a manbaby and im busy w my baby too.

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Super Mum

Hi momma. Sorry to hear this. 1stly divorce should not be uttered at all! Glad to hear he knows he went overboard with that. With that being said, try talking to him again when you are less angry and try not to talk about this just yet. Talk about this only when both of u are ready to hear eachother out without feeling attacked or defensive. Confide with one another and respect eachothers opinion.

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3y ago

tried before. but he always think is no point. Its just revolve around him and he say like its me that being the one who care about myself.