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I was bullied as a kid. I used to be scrawny and shy. It was very traumatic for me because I couldn't tell my teacher or parents for fear of inciting my bullies further. I managed to stand up to them eventually but it really took away a huge chunk of my childhood and replaced it with anger and fear. I don't want my kid to ever go through that.
Yung nakikinood kami ng TV sa kapitbahay habang nakadungaw sa bintana nila. Hindi mahilig manood ng TV dad ko (more of newspaper or radio siya) so pati kami, bawal magTV. Most of my friends now are implementing the no TV policy, but I don't want my child to feel deprive. I'll just set a rule maybe 30mins or 1hr per day depending on age.
ung maramdamang ampon lang sha sa pamilya at hnd tunay na kadugo. tipong daig nya pa ang tunay na adopted child. lahat lahat na anjan, d ka mahalaga, binubully kht ng kapatid , binubugbog ng stepdad pero deadma lng ang mama. ung sisigawa ka habang kumakain at parang hnd ka naman bata kung tratuhin.
Yung feeling na gusto ko na mgstow away kasi sobrang strict ang parents ko, particularly my dad. Gusto ko in moderation lang lahat para hindi mgiisip at makakaramdam ng kung ano-ano ang anak ko. I've really seen how important it is to have an open communication between parents and the child.
toxic environment. most people would say "broken family". more than most its not a healthy environment to grow up in kung hindi okay ang relationship ng parents.. cheating, scandalous, abusive and so on types of relationship.. thats what i dont want my child to think it was "normal"
Dapat sa mga important milestones ni baby like first day of school, graduations mga ganun dapat present tayo kasi syempre they want to feel na may nag cacare sa kanila. which I think is the most important factor when raising a kid para di sila humanap ng attention from others. 😊
ayokong maranasan ng anak ko, yung hirap na dinanas namin noong kami ay mga bata pa. 😕😢 kaya sipag at tiyaga lang talaga para matupad mga pangarap sa buhay at para din maibigay ang mga pangangailangan ng aking anak pati ang kanyang minsang mga kagustuhan. 😇😍
Ung kulang sa pagaalaga sa kawatan. Nung elementary ako, okay lang na di ako nausuklayan at naaayusan. Papasok sa school starting nung kindergarten na kami kami lang, walang sundo walang hatid. Since first baby ko, ayko maging ganun baby ko since it is a baby girl..
ayuko ma experienced nya na nahihiya sya sa maraming tao kasi noon bata pako sobrang napaka mahiyain ko! saka mahina loob ko kaya ginagawa ko sa anak ko sinasali ko sya sa lahat ng activities sa church namin para di sya maging mahiyain pag dating ng panahon😊😊
Aywko maransan ng anak ko ung kahirapn na naransan ko nuon bata pa ung ba mguulam ka ng toyo na my mantika or minsan eh tubig na my asin tas nglalakad lng tuwing papasok sa school ky ngyn ng susumikap sa abroad asawa ko mabigyn ng maaus na pamumuhay