advice please!

After I gave birth 6 months ago , nagstart na ako mawalan ng gana sa partner ko. Honestly , ayaw ko na hinahawakan nya ko or kahit ikiss man lang ayaw ko din. It started nung nahuli ko sya na tiningnan yung FB profile ng dati nya niligawan before me. Di ko sya nahuli sa akto , I just saw sa history ng phone nya. I confronted him pero nagLIE sya .nung una dami nya palusot pero eventually umamin din. Naisipan lang daw nya icheck yung pictures kasi nakita nya sa newsfeed. Selosa ako , and he knows that very well. So yeah, since then nawalan ako ng gana as his partner. In 6 months siguro we just had sex 4 or 5 times in 6 months lang and all of them are pilit pa. He keeps on asking for sex pero wala na e, NANDIDIRI ako sa kiss nya sa haplos nya and ayaw ko na tinititigan sya . Ill just lie down and let him do what he wants to do with me and then once his done tayo na. ganun... I am being hard on him na I admit that, pero I felt betrayed kasi 1 month pa lang si baby nun and he was able to do that agad! Never kami nagkaroon ng 3rd party issue except don if considered yun. I dont know if I still love him or kini keep ko lang sya kasi wala na ako choice. Pero honestly thats how I feel, nandidiri ako kahit hawakan man lang nya. Mababaw po ba?

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Hi mamsh...i can relate becoz super selosa din aq. But what happened to me was far worse than your case. My partner had an actual affair with a woman he met in a bar when I was on training (well, i'm with the law enforcement). Then when I came back I learned about their relationship which still actually exist even when I'm back. You could just imagine how i feel so betrayed, it was actually an understatement 😊, but when i confronted him, he told me everything, though there are some inconsistencies in his statements, but we know guys right, they tend to do it para makalusot. Sad for him because investigation is my cup of tea, so to make the story short, i dugged up everytying from him and from my self-investigation. But the issue there is not only the betrayal, it is the relationship. Do u think that it was the sole reason you ended up "wala ng gana sa kanya" or maybe because of some post partum churvalu dahil kakapanganak mo pa lang? And the real question now regardless of the circumstances that had happened is, are you ready to leave him? And is leaving him would make you happy and more satisfied in your life? Or would you consider contemplating your siruation and likewise assessing yourself, if the problem is not him alone, but also you? Before arriving into a decision, think and moreso...feel sissy. Think and feel for yourself, for your partner and most of all...for your child. You know sometimes jealousy brings out not only the worst in a person but the best realization as well. I've been there, i've done that...and now I'm at peace, with my partner and we are now excitedly expecting our little angel. God bless us all. 😉😉😉

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