1 month na kaming sexless ni hubby. Hindi na rin kami nagkukwentuhan, tawanan, yakapan, kiss. Wala nang ganon. Sa kwarto, derecho na ko sa kama katabi si 5 month old baby girl namin, sya sa sahig. Madalas akong hoping na aayain nya ako magsex o kaya naman gigisingin nya ako para dun. Kaso, wala na. Sya lang nagwowork samin. Full time mom ako. Naiiyak ako. Namimiss ko yung noong kami. Sexual si hubby, actually 2 weeks post partum ko nga nun nagsex na kami e. I told him na parang di na nya ako mahal. Sabi naman nya mahal nya ako ano man mangyari. Pero, I can't feel it anymore.

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Kami din ni hubby dumalang mag make love simula ng nanganak ako. 10 months na si baby ngaun pero til now 3-4x lang kami mag make love sa loob ng isang buwan. Minsan ako pa yung nagyayaya hehe Baka naman stress out lang si hubby sa work sis of lagi pagod pag uwi ng bahay? Kasi ganun si hubby ko pag sobrang pagod e. Wala tlga syang drive sa sex. Napapansin ko un sa kanya, every restday lang kami nagmamake love (once a wk lang rd ni hubby) kung saan hindi sya pagod coz nasa house lang. Why dont you try na yayain sya pag alam mong hindi sya pagod? Or go out, yung kayong 2 lang, para marelax kayo at kasunod na nun magiging good mood na sya at yayain ka na.. πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ˜Š

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8y ago

Same with our situation hubby ko lang din nag wowork madalang nadin name mag make love simula ng manganak ako 6 months na baby ko. Minsan nahihiya naman ako na manguna kasi page dating nya sa house kain pahinga konti tapos tulog na agad sya para daw Hindi sya antukin sa work. Pagod din kasi 12hrs. Work nya 1 month ang shifting so iniintindi ko nalang yun Hindi nadin kami magka tabi matulog kasi Hindi na kami kasya sa bed.

part of being a woman specially as a wife is to understand and give everything to ur hubby.i think wala naman mawawala and it will be more exciting kung ikaw ang mauna tumabi at magyaya.you are lucky dahil concern sau si hubby.maybe he's also thinking that u are tired taking care of ur baby. try to make the first move and be open to him.for sure lalong maging successful ang marriage niyo :-)

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This is totally normal. You two just need time alone without your baby. Ask someone to babysit and go on a date. Dress up, go to a nice place. Focus on him and the conversation. :) You can also read this article for tips on rekindling your sex life: https://ph.theasianparent.com/sex-after-kids-5-ways-to-rekindle-the-romance/

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I think you have to go out of town or have a staycation so you can talk privately without anyone who can disturb you. Going out for few drinks will also help.