baby concern

honestly my house is honestly a mess & i'm expecting my first child but have to stay apart from my fiancee.. he wants to take care of baby at his home when he/she is born but i don't know when i'll be able to visit baby & really wanna take care of precious angel every single day.. i have separation anxiety i don't wanna be away from my love ones for too long especially a child tht i'm carrying my womb for 5 months only 4 months left till i pop.. i feel sad right & don't know wht to do my house i'm living in is a mess.. it's hurting me just to think ahead right now of wht's going to happen 😔💔 #pleasehelp

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Breastfeed and solely from the breast. Don’t pump so they don’t have excuse to seperate baby from you unless they have a way to only take your boob la. No one has the right to take away a child from their mother, especially newborns. They should be the one coming over instead. Stay strong!

2y ago

Try to talk to him again. Maybe let him know that a newborn needs their mother after birth. We are the ones that carried them for 9 months. Work out a plan, baby will follow you after birth, they can come over and visit during off days. Or is there anyway you guys can make arrangements to stay together?