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Pulling/grabbing/hitting

9 months baby keeps pulling out ears, face, nose, skin… sometimes hitting very hard too. It’s so painful! Is this a developmental phase that will pass? Or something we need to “teach”? How to teach? No matter how I tell baby to use gentle hands, he keeps doing the same. It’s so frustrating!

Oh, I totally understand what you're going through! It can be really tough when your baby keeps pulling, grabbing, and even hitting you. Rest assured, this is actually a common developmental phase that many babies go through as they start exploring their surroundings and testing their limits. One way to approach this behavior is to gently redirect your baby's hands whenever they start pulling or hitting. You can do this by calmly saying "gentle hands" and showing them how to touch things softly. Be consistent with this approach and eventually, your baby will start to understand the concept of being gentle. Another technique is to provide your baby with safe and engaging toys to keep their hands occupied. This can help distract them from pulling or hitting and redirect their energy towards more appropriate activities. It's important to remember that this phase will pass with time and patience. Keep reinforcing the idea of gentle hands and eventually, your baby will learn to control their impulses. Hang in there, you're doing a great job! https://invl.io/cll6she

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PPHS rental

Hi mummies, anyone here staying in pphs rental ? Where did you choose and how far is it from your work/your baby’s ifc. And how long have you stayed ? I meed encouragement. Im currently staying bedok, baby’s ifc in bedok, me & husb work at bedok but due to limited choice, one of the ok location is hougang. However its still far from our work/comfort place. Bto also will be in bedok. But due to desperate about moving out of in laws house, i guess just have to ride thru the difficulties just for a better mental health and personal space ?

Hi there! I totally understand how challenging it can be to find the right rental place, especially with work and your baby's ifc in mind. It sounds like you're in a tough spot having to consider a location that's far from both your work and your baby's ifc. It's natural to feel desperate about moving out of your in laws' house, but your mental health and personal space are important too. I haven't stayed in a PPHS rental myself, but I can offer some encouragement and ideas. Have you considered looking for alternative rental options in different areas? Sometimes, there might be hidden gems that are closer to your work and your baby's ifc. Perhaps reaching out to local property agents or using online platforms can help you explore more choices. If Hougang seems like the best option for now, maybe you could look into convenient transportation options to make the commute more manageable. Carpooling with colleagues or using public transport might make the distance feel less daunting. Remember, this is just a temporary situation, and your well-being is worth it. Hang in there, and keep searching for a place that will meet your family's needs. You're doing great, and I admire your determination to prioritize your mental health and personal space. Stay strong, mama! https://invl.io/cll6she

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will my kid grow tall?

Is it true that if both parents are tall, our child will also grow tall? Until now, compared to children of the same age, they do appear taller although not significantly.

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probability is there!

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approaching first birthday, still cant stand

Mom... I'm really worried. My child is almost 1 year old (11 months) and still can't stand up... can sometimes stand with support, but still falls often. Not to mention standing, even when supported, they cry and just want to sit down. It's like they're scared. Why is that, mom... I want to take them to a pediatrician, but last time I went, I was scolded for supposedly not providing enough stimulation and not caring for my child. It's exhausting to be judged constantly. has anyone experienced the same?

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signs of congenital heart disease

Mom, I'm really worried. I've noticed that my baby seems to be struggling to breathe at times. They also seem lethargic... and their lips look a bit bluish. There's a family history of congenital heart disease, but I don't have it. Could it have been passed on to my baby?

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What kind of doctor do you prefer for your baby and yourself?

For both my baby and myself, I always prefer pediatricians and family doctors. Pediatricians specialize in children's health, so they're great at understanding the unique needs and concerns of little ones. They're trained to diagnose and treat childhood illnesses and developmental issues, which gives me peace of mind knowing my child is in good hands. Family doctors, on the other hand, are like our healthcare quarterbacks. They take care of the whole family, from newborns to grandparents. I appreciate their comprehensive approach to healthcare because they can address not only my child's needs but also mine. Plus, having one doctor who knows our family's medical history and preferences makes everything easier and more personalized. When it comes to myself, I also value having a gynecologist or obstetrician for women's health needs, especially during pregnancy and childbirth. These specialists have the expertise to ensure a healthy pregnancy and delivery, as well as provide guidance on contraception, reproductive health, and menopause later on. In addition to these primary care doctors, I also rely on specialists when necessary. Whether it's a dermatologist for skin issues, an ENT specialist for ear, nose, and throat problems, or a pediatric specialist for specific childhood conditions, I trust that they have the expertise needed to address our health concerns effectively. Overall, having a team of doctors who specialize in different areas ensures that both my baby and I receive the best possible care tailored to our individual needs. https://invl.io/cll6she

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baby can't sleep soundly

Mom, I want to ask... why is it that my baby (4 months) has such a hard time sleeping? It seems like he never sleeps for more than 1 hour... like he never sleeps soundly. He also always wakes up because of little noises. I'm worried if this is what's causing him to have trouble gaining weight? Has anyone had a similar experience?

Hey there! I totally understand how frustrating it can be when your baby has trouble sleeping. It's definitely tough when they're not getting the rest they need, and it can be worrying when it comes to their weight gain. First off, it's completely normal for babies to have trouble sleeping soundly, especially at 4 months old. Their sleep patterns are still developing, and they're easily disturbed by little noises. Some babies are just naturally lighter sleepers than others, and that's okay. It doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong. One thing you could try is creating a calming bedtime routine to help your baby relax before sleep. This could include things like a warm bath, gentle massage, or reading a story. Also, making sure the room is dark, quiet, and at a comfortable temperature can help create an environment that's conducive to better sleep. As for the weight gain concern, it's important to consult with your pediatrician if you're worried about it. Poor sleep can potentially impact weight gain, but there are various factors that contribute to a baby's growth. Your doctor can help assess whether your baby's sleep patterns are affecting their weight and provide guidance on how to address any issues. Remember, every baby is different, and it's okay to seek support and advice from other parents who may have had similar experiences. Hang in there, and I hope you find some solutions that work for you and your little one! https://invl.io/cll6she

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will my baby walk soon?

Mom, my baby (7.5 months old) has started standing up and pulling objects to stand. I was really surprised because I didn't expect him to do that at his age. In fact, a few times I've seen him able to walk while holding onto my/ his father's hand. Will my baby be walking soon? I'm worried if this is too early or normal? Has anyone experienced this?

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Ingenuity swing 2 seat for sale

Selling off at $150 Lightly used

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my kid has speech delay because of me

Mom... my husband and I feel really guilty. We have one child. Both of us work... ever since our child was born, we've had help from a babysitter. When we're at work, we leave our child at my parents' house, but still with the babysitter. Often, we're too tired when we get home from work, so we don't have time to play with our child. We rarely talk to him. Sometimes, even on weekends, we have events. We do take him with us, but we realized... after thinking about it, even though we take him along, we rarely engage in conversations or interactions with him. We got too comfortable with the convenience... having a babysitter, someone to take care of our child. We rarely talked to him. The result? Our child has a speech delay. The therapist said one of the factors is the lack of stimulation for talking. We regret it so much. Why did we get so caught up in work? Why did we give in to exhaustion and convenience? We used to think it was pointless to talk to a baby since they don't understand yet. But that's not true. They will understand more if we talk to them more often... Child, forgive us for being negligent as parents...

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