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Tommee tippee steriliser/dryer
Bottom metal part slight brownish is it normal?
Lactation massager worth it?
I have been mixed feeding but since getting ill my milk production has reduced a lot. Is a lactation massager such as cubble worth it? If so, which one is the most effective?
Postnatal massage
Love my post natal massage therapist. Her sliming is especially effective. Do DM her if you are looking for one 👍🏽 89040692 - Josette
FTM Cant Get Enough of Her Baby
My baby boy is 1 month & 17 days old today.. As a FTM, so far i'm managing well even though my confinement plan was in a mess. I delivered him through c-sect and i spent literally almost first 2 weeks away from him due to re-admission to the hospital for surgery complications. When i hear my parents blessing him to grow up soon, i wished he stayed the way he is now so i can enjoy the moment with my cutie.. My hubby and I are both melted by him, we both even considered having a second baby even though i'm aware that this shouldn't be in our plan anytime soon due to the major surgery i had earlier. Sometimes i wish i can turn back or freeze the clock.. Any mummies & daddies experience the same?
Took LO away without informing
Had a fight with husband today. I wanna take a break from taking care 2 months old. He did try to best to support whenever he is around. But I'm so overwhelmed and tired and exhausted. I had support from my mum but I still have to take care mostly by myself. Appreciate what my mum did. But I can't help to feel so suffocated. So I know I have to talk to someone - my husband which ended up in a fight. He then took my son to visit clinic without informing me. I mean I was just ranting out to him and now I felt leftout from my son clinic visit. I only realised when I heard the door open and closed. Went out to find that I was abandoned. Should I be angry for not informing me? Or should I appreciate that he let me rest? But I only can feel I'm been leftout.
Acis Reflux or Colic Baby
Hi parents..i need help...im so down right now.. Itz juz me and hubby taking care of our baby..when hubby at werk i will b alone taking care.. She's 1mth plus..since day 1 she have been vomiting milk..went to PD and diagnosed wif acid reflux...been given probiotics n motilium.. Previously was on Enfamil Pro A+ then now Nan Supreme Pro HA..she still vomits milk..quite a lot till from her nose..n at times constipated..her poop will haf mixture of paste n squishy poop... Shes been cranky.. especially at night n whatever we do for her..like bathing..diaper change..she will cry..she crys alot wen shes awake.. We did burp her halfway on her 120ml feed then once finished will burp her again..we let her in upright position for half hr..adjusted her cot to be slanted.. elevated pillow too.. numerous tries of different rubs.. What do i do? Im confuse if shes colic too... But so far..She never refuse milk..do i change formula again? What formula? PD wans to recommend NAN AR but afraid it will make her constipated due to e starch...dun noe wat to do oreadi..some frens saes itz normal till 3mths...
Post Partum depression due to mother in law
After 4 weeks of paternal leave, my husband he’s now back at work, and I’m left handling our newborn on my own. My mother-in-law only helps with bathing the baby after she comes home around 1 PM. Although I know how to bathe my baby, I let her do it because I think sometimes elderly people just want to feel needed. However, my mother-in-law can be extremely toxic when she’s in a bad mood. 1. She often makes unnecessary comments, like when I turn on the bathroom light during the day to brush my teeth, saying things like, “Why do you need the light? It’s still bright outside!” (even though the bathroom is completely dark with the door closed). 2. One time, my newborn’s shirt had a stain, and she told me to clean it, saying, “Don’t let my son do it, he has to work. You’re just at home, and you can rest, but he can’t.” 3. During my first week of confinement, I was in pain and couldn’t walk much. When my husband brought my meals to the room, she criticized, saying, “Why can’t she eat in the living room?” 4. She insists that newborns don’t get hot, yet when my baby got a heat rash, it was clear that he was uncomfortable. Babies are human, why wouldn’t they feel hot? 5. She always wants my baby to wear the same few outfits she bought (she only bought three), insisting they be worn repeatedly, even though I have plenty of clothes for him. 6. When my baby is fussy and cries, she’ll say things like, “Give him a pacifier,” or “Pat him,” (which I’m already doing). I have my own ways of calming him, but she constantly interferes. 7. She has a granddaughter who comes over, screaming loudly, and it disrupts my baby’s sleep. She prioritizes her granddaughter, but when my husband is home, she acts as though she’s deeply concerned about my son, wanting to hold him even when he’s peacefully sleeping. 8. I’m feeding my baby formula, and she made a comment about his tongue being white, saying it’ll stay white in the future. When my husband’s friends visited, she casually mentioned to them that I don’t have breast milk, as if it’s something shameful. I’m struggling to cope with her toxic remarks. Her words hurt me deeply, and it’s affecting me. I’m also someone’s daughter, and if my mom knew what was happening, she’d be heartbroken. I don’t even dare tell her about it.
Newborn sleeping pattern
My newborn at wk3 start to chabge it's sleeping pattern. She need to be carried to sleep throughout, once put down she will wake up and cry untill she is carried again. Sometime she wont sleep but keep crying. Anyone experience this and any solution?
Exclusive pumping mum
I have been EP for a month now, every 3 hourly. But the midnight pumps are really killing me. Im extremely tired as I take care of baby on my own + pumping and cleaning of her stuff. Would my milk supply drop if I stretch or cut down on 1 night pump? Or if I were to stretch my pumps to every 4hourly, will my milk be lesser? Im only a just enough mum pumping arnd 120ml each session.
Bleeding 6 weeks
Hey mom is it normal to still bleed after 6 weeks? (Natural birth)
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