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FTM Cant Get Enough of Her Baby
My baby boy is 1 month & 17 days old today.. As a FTM, so far i'm managing well even though my confinement plan was in a mess. I delivered him through c-sect and i spent literally almost first 2 weeks away from him due to re-admission to the hospital for surgery complications. When i hear my parents blessing him to grow up soon, i wished he stayed the way he is now so i can enjoy the moment with my cutie.. My hubby and I are both melted by him, we both even considered having a second baby even though i'm aware that this shouldn't be in our plan anytime soon due to the major surgery i had earlier. Sometimes i wish i can turn back or freeze the clock.. Any mummies & daddies experience the same?
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Post Partum depression due to mother in law
After 4 weeks of paternal leave, my husband heâs now back at work, and Iâm left handling our newborn on my own. My mother-in-law only helps with bathing the baby after she comes home around 1 PM. Although I know how to bathe my baby, I let her do it because I think sometimes elderly people just want to feel needed. However, my mother-in-law can be extremely toxic when sheâs in a bad mood. 1. She often makes unnecessary comments, like when I turn on the bathroom light during the day to brush my teeth, saying things like, âWhy do you need the light? Itâs still bright outside!â (even though the bathroom is completely dark with the door closed). 2. One time, my newbornâs shirt had a stain, and she told me to clean it, saying, âDonât let my son do it, he has to work. Youâre just at home, and you can rest, but he canât.â 3. During my first week of confinement, I was in pain and couldnât walk much. When my husband brought my meals to the room, she criticized, saying, âWhy canât she eat in the living room?â 4. She insists that newborns donât get hot, yet when my baby got a heat rash, it was clear that he was uncomfortable. Babies are human, why wouldnât they feel hot? 5. She always wants my baby to wear the same few outfits she bought (she only bought three), insisting they be worn repeatedly, even though I have plenty of clothes for him. 6. When my baby is fussy and cries, sheâll say things like, âGive him a pacifier,â or âPat him,â (which Iâm already doing). I have my own ways of calming him, but she constantly interferes. 7. She has a granddaughter who comes over, screaming loudly, and it disrupts my babyâs sleep. She prioritizes her granddaughter, but when my husband is home, she acts as though sheâs deeply concerned about my son, wanting to hold him even when heâs peacefully sleeping. 8. Iâm feeding my baby formula, and she made a comment about his tongue being white, saying itâll stay white in the future. When my husbandâs friends visited, she casually mentioned to them that I donât have breast milk, as if itâs something shameful. Iâm struggling to cope with her toxic remarks. Her words hurt me deeply, and itâs affecting me. Iâm also someoneâs daughter, and if my mom knew what was happening, sheâd be heartbroken. I donât even dare tell her about it.
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Bottom metal part slight brownish is it normal?
Newborn sleeping pattern
My newborn at wk3 start to chabge it's sleeping pattern. She need to be carried to sleep throughout, once put down she will wake up and cry untill she is carried again. Sometime she wont sleep but keep crying. Anyone experience this and any solution?
Acis Reflux or Colic Baby
Hi parents..i need help...im so down right now.. Itz juz me and hubby taking care of our baby..when hubby at werk i will b alone taking care.. She's 1mth plus..since day 1 she have been vomiting milk..went to PD and diagnosed wif acid reflux...been given probiotics n motilium.. Previously was on Enfamil Pro A+ then now Nan Supreme Pro HA..she still vomits milk..quite a lot till from her nose..n at times constipated..her poop will haf mixture of paste n squishy poop... Shes been cranky.. especially at night n whatever we do for her..like bathing..diaper change..she will cry..she crys alot wen shes awake.. We did burp her halfway on her 120ml feed then once finished will burp her again..we let her in upright position for half hr..adjusted her cot to be slanted.. elevated pillow too.. numerous tries of different rubs.. What do i do? Im confuse if shes colic too... But so far..She never refuse milk..do i change formula again? What formula? PD wans to recommend NAN AR but afraid it will make her constipated due to e starch...dun noe wat to do oreadi..some frens saes itz normal till 3mths...
Exclusive pumping mum
I have been EP for a month now, every 3 hourly. But the midnight pumps are really killing me. Im extremely tired as I take care of baby on my own + pumping and cleaning of her stuff. Would my milk supply drop if I stretch or cut down on 1 night pump? Or if I were to stretch my pumps to every 4hourly, will my milk be lesser? Im only a just enough mum pumping arnd 120ml each session.
Bleeding 6 weeks
Hey mom is it normal to still bleed after 6 weeks? (Natural birth)
Purplish spot appeared on LO face overnight, help!
Theres this purplish/reddish spot that suddenly appeared on my LO cheeks overnight and its not going away..im getting quite worried.. anyone know what it is or have experience on this? Thanks so much!
Red patches around newborn eye area
Hello, does anyone know what is this red patches around my babyâs eye? Any remedy to cure it? đ
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