Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

It depends a lot on whether you would like to bring your kid along. Personally I don't mind my kid sticking with me throughout the trip. When we plan itinerary, we always make sure we have a spread of breakfast (buffet) as it is difficult to predict what my toddler wants to eat. Than we will plan a place suitable for our toddler to have some fun and tire her out. Take a car ride and give some milk and she usually dozes off. Than we will have our "me time". Hope it helps