Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

How about a combination (sort of) of both? Do a 2D1N staycation with toddler (since she is part of your marriage now.. hee.. and she looks so adorable!!). After checking out on day 2, bring her to parents' place or someone who can help look after her for the evening, and proceed to have a romantic dinner. hee.. Just a suggestion for your consideration.. not sure if the plan would be too troublesome for your execution. Regardless, hope you will have a great anniversary celebration!