Caring after child with no help..

From birth till maternity ends: myself n my mum While working: my mum and my mil Lo at 22 months: cc and myself (still working) Lo at 39 months: half day cc and myself (stop working) I too have no 1 to really be there to help with lo. My mum is old and my mil have other grandchildren to take care off. Work out ur steps as u go along. What u plan now might not work in a few months time. Placing in cc is a good choice but once they are sick then it is very hard on us working mum. My lo was also so tired after almost 10 hours in cc. But now with half day cc n me being at home, the situation is much better. I am there when she is not well. We also get to spend more time together. But the minus point now is financial we are tight. We are also planning our next move as we go along.