My mom and her side of family was toxic since I was young (verbally and physically), so I cut her side off completely when I started working (my parents are divorced). It’s been years now and I don’t regret a single bit. You were supposed to be the person to back me up, to support me, the one for me to confide so if you can’t do all those, at the very least don’t add on to my troubles. I don’t want my child to be in contact with toxic people, especially family members. No nonsense like I shouldn’t stop my child from getting love from grandma blabla.