What to do when your spouse is going through severe anxiety and depression and doesn't want to submit to any professional help? It's taking toll on the marriage and the kids. No one from his family is able to help as well.

Does he have a close friend that could help you convince him to get professional help? I know it's not ideal but if it's severe, getting help from an expert could be a important. Is your husband religious? If he is, instead of getting counsel from a medical professional, he could talk to a religious leader that he is comfortable with. My friend went through a bout of depression after losing her baby and she sought support and counsel from her church; it helped alot. You can also help by going with him to whatever body of help he seeks eventually. It could be a psychiatrist, it could be a religious leader -- go with him and offer him whatever support you can. Hang in there!