mad at your spouse

It really irritates me to the core when he makes his own plans and tell me about at the last moment. Whenever he has to go out of the town, he will tell me when he has booked the tickets. He basically is the deciding factor and I do not have any role in it to play. This really makes me feel left out from the whole scene. It feels as if he I have no role to play in his life and I am just to take orders.