What should you do if you find out your hubby have another child from his ex-gf? I found out my hubby have another kids with his ex-gf after one year our marriage .i know this after I checked his phone and saw massage from this woman asking money. I call the number and woman there said my hubby have 10yo son. The kids and ex-gf is at oversea. They know each other when the woman is working in Singapore. What should I do? And I am currently pregnant.

hello, it's unfortunate that you have to find out like that but maybe you can look at it this way. its only right that your husband feeds his child. the child is still his responsibility till 21. there's really not much you can do except to trust your husband that he didn't want to tell you in order not to jeopardise your relationship. however, if you cannot take it in this direction, your trust issues with him will be hard to resolve and will create more stress for your pregnancy. I guess this has to be a more logical decision than an emotional one.