What should i do? I'm in a shot gun marriage 4 yrs ago with now with 2 sweet daughters. Due to some work changes from my hubby side, he got into alot of stress and attitude changes alot. And i have to agree I'm getting tired of the routine recently. We just had a 1 hour talk of how we are feeling. He kept mentioning we are not seeing things eye to eye when sometimes i feel that the way he see things is pretty ridiculous. I told him that I'm tired of the routine, that's why we needed a break (holiday as i don't travel much) he kept repeating "let's see how long we can last" and to be honest, i don't wish things to last. My heart aches everytime we quarrel and even quarrel over a tiny stuffs. I really don't know what else I can do.