What if nakunan ang asawa mo,What will you do to help her overcome it ?

In general, allow her to go through the grieving process, and be sensitive of her needs and feelings. Please also understand and accept that her coping style may be different from yours. Allow her to rest, so ikaw muna ang incharge sa bahay. Make her feel na andyan ka para sa kanya, but not naman yung literal na nasa tabi ka lagi, kasi baka gusto din niya na mapag-isa.