What gifts would you prefer to receive from friends when you just gave birth? I would rather people not come with any because I got boxes of Chicken Essence, Milo, DOM which I rarely take at all and end up having to find place to keep them.

I usually give my friends vouchers of sorts -- spa, massage, even Watsons or NTUC vouchers --- so they can spend on necessities or to pamper themselves. Most of them are too shy to accept money because we are the same age so I will address the money to the baby instead.