We have some financial issue this month. My husband want to lend some money to his parents but i don't think that's a good idea. I prefer we sell some stuff to cover our financial rather than lending money. How can i say this to him without hurting him?

Managing finance could be frustrating in marriage if you are not on the same page with your partner. There are times that one might make a decision without considering the other person's feeling into account--and this can happen unintentionally. It would be better if you first sit down and discuss the matter with your partner. Let him hear your suggestion and also acknowledge his. Then, list down the pros and cons if you follow your suggestion as well as his suggestion. In this way, you can have a better understanding of the situation considering both of your perspectives. Reading this article might also help: http://www.theindusparent.com/how-to-stop-fighting-over-money-with-your-spouse