We have some financial issue this month. My husband want to lend some money to his parents but i don't think that's a good idea. I prefer we sell some stuff to cover our financial rather than lending money. How can i say this to him without hurting him?

I feel that this would be a good time to do a stock take of the household expenditure. Set aside a few hours and note down the current financial commitments (fixed and variable). From there, you can bring in your suggestions and also could consider other ideas. Have a frank and open discussion on how the finances should be managed and think of both short-term and long-term solutions. I personally feel that having everything written down will help you stay focus on the discussion and downplay the emotional aspect. Hope this helps!