Para sa akin, proper communication is the key to a healthy relationship, lalo na at LDR pa kayo. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Love doesn't make us psychics na dapat ay alam natin kung ano ang iniisip ng bawat isa. That's a romantic concept na nakakasira ng relationship. Kung nasaktan ka sa mga sinabi nya, let him know. "Gusto ko marealize nya mali nyang sinabi", why the need to play that game? Hindi na kayo mga teenagers. Ipaalam mo sa kanya kung ano yung mga sinabi at ginawa nya na nakasakit sayo. Sabihin mo kung ano sana ang ine-expect mo na ginawa nya, or hindi nya dapat ginawa. At the same time, alamin at unawain mo rin yung side nya, at baka may pagkukulang ka rin pala na hindi mo lang narealize.
Mag-usap kayo with the intention to understand one another, and not to prove the other person wrong.
Ang kasal is not the end but only the beginning. It's not the "happy ever after", rather it's a constant work in progress. I hope magkaayos na po kayo and may you both come out of this stronger and more in love with better understanding of one another ☺️