I can understand, it's normal for you to feel jealous and normal for your LO to feel attached to primary caregiver.
It is also one of my greatest fear that my LO (now 4 months) will prefer my helper (main caregiver when I am at work) than me. In the first week of returning to work, I was so jealous that I thought of quitting my job and firing her...
But we have to work, so no choice... All we can do is to spend as much quality time with them as possible, and hope they will understand when they grow older...
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