Today my heart broke a little bit. It was my little ones first day of preschool and I brought my helper along to assist me. When we were ready to leave, my little one kept bawling away and would not let go of my helper and kept saying "ateh, don't leave me" (ateh is big Sister). I told my baby, ok, mumma can take time off from work and spend with you and she replied, no I want ateh to stay and play with me. I feel jealous and hurt that my baby prefers The Maid to me. Am I being unreasonable? I feel like changing maids.

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U shudnt dear if not she's helping u. If u get a new maid would she even be reliable? I guess mothers have to work n leave the maid handling the kids made the kid attached to the maid even more. Maybe u handle yr kid more so she!/he or won't be attached to the maid so much. I get stressed handling my kids dat I leave to my husband. Sometimes my kids look for my husband. Sometimes we mums feel guilty but we also feel stressed handling them. Ure not alone dear

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Home Just Mums today heart broke little bit it was little ones first day preschool i brought helper along assist when were ready leave little kept bawling away not let go helper kept saying ateh dont leave ateh big sister i told baby ok mumma take time off from work spend with replied i want ateh stay play with i feel jealous hurt that baby prefers the maid am i being unreasonable i feel like changing maids