Those with no maid , no in law or parents help etc .. how do u n hubby split the housework between the two of u ? Is your hubby calculative / or not calculative ? as in if u can't do your housework cos u are sick or too exhausted from handling children or work, that he will help u clear some urgent ones even though that is not within his scope of housework that is agreed upon?

Even though we dont have our own house yet, i can already forsee my husband on NOT touching any of the housework. Even if im so sick and half dead. HE will just leave laundry on the floor for me to pick it up. So when my house come, i forsee the house i will be handling it myself. As long it's tidy, with dishes washed and laundry washed. It's ok. You can focus mainly on weekends. Sanity first.