"This was posted today by psychologist and life coach Ali Gui on FB: Jealousy is not worth ruining a relationship over. You need to preserve what's important and figure out how to mitigate the negative emotions." Do you agree? Has jealousy been a problem before between you and your spouse? Share your thoughts please.

I agree that jealousy should be mitigated. You are jealous because you care about the other party. But more importantly, there are other underlying reasons (e.g., insecurity, feeling neglected or unappreciated, feeling threatened) that brought about the feeling of being jealous. It is more important to address those issues to maintain a healthy relationship. Communication is key! Don't let jealousy consume you and blind your ability to reason and tackle the underlying causes.