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Do you think a married family with children is any better than an unmarried relationship with kids , if so why ?

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Depende. My parents didn't get married. But they were so happy and contented and has healthy relationship. Especially when they had us. Kahit wala na mama ko, hindi na nag asawa ulit si papa. Kasi wala na syang makitang kagaya ni mama. I admired my parents relationship. Nung bata pa kami, kapag may problema silang mag-asawa, hindi nila pinapakita sa amin. Kapag tulog na kami saka nila pinag uusapan kung anong problema. It doesn't matter if you're legally married or not. Importante how you value your relationship and the commitment. Kahit ako hindi ako kasal sa papa ng baby ko and not planning to for now just because we have a baby already. We chatted for 6 months and met and after a month, i got pregnant. And now my lo is 3 months old already. We are so happy together. No, not together, threegether rather. 😊

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Yes para legal at may protection kayo ng law. Kapag may ngyari either sa inyong magpartner pag di kayo kasal, hindi kayo pwedeng magdecide para sa isa't isa. Example, emergency need ng consent, di ka makakapirma kasi di kayo kasal. Wala rin kayong karapatan sa properties ng isa't isa. Unlike pag kasal lahat ng bibilhin ng asawa mo sayo rin. Pero kung sa relationship at pagpapalaki ng mga anak siyempre depende yun sa mga magulang, kasal man o hindi.

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Yes, mas maraming blessing kapag married, and pag si God ang center ng relationship. Not only because of the rites but also I think mas matibay ang faith nyo sa relationship nyo if you took your relationship into marriage. But this is applicable siguro sa mga inlove talaga and destined, not all married people are happy and they just did for the sake of it.

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Yes. Mas maganda talaga ang kasal. But it does't mean na hindi okay kapag umarried. Depende pa rin yan sa case nyung mag-asawa on how you handle the relationship married man kau or unmarried.. For me mas comfortable and proud ako if kasal kami ng partner ko. Kaso plano pa lang e. Malayo pa sa katotohanan. 🀣

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In terms of legalities, syempre mas may edge ka kapag kasal kayo. Pero if sa pagsasama, I think nasa magpartner pa rin yan dahil kayo naman magdadala ng relasyon nyo, hindi naman yung kapirasong papel. Basta dapat, kasal o hindi pa - kasama nyo ang Diyos sa relationship nyo.

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I am unmarried with kid. By the bible and law, married family with children is better. Parang ayoko ng sagutin kung bakit. Hahahahaha. Basta masaya na ko sa family ko and natuto ako, okay na iyon. πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜…

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legality wise mas may say Ang asawa at anak ng pinakasalan kesa sa hindi,. double edged Ang marriage when it comes sa pag sasama, nasa inyo n yan Pano mag wowork out married life niyo. hehe

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No. Married or unmarried, complete or incomplete, you're still a family as long as you love your kids and yourself and as long as you do your obligations as (a) parent/s to your kid/s.

Nope not at all. What matters most is you are raising your children to be beneficial and advantageous to the society. Its 2019. Lets be better informed parents.

MARRIED. Kung maayos pagsasama ninyo, bakit hindi magpakasal at saka kung may budget go! Para hindi rin mahirapan mga magiging anak ninyo sa mga papeles.