Are there times you miss your life when you were still single?

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Not really that I miss the single life. It just crosses my mind sometimes, what could have been if I am still living the life I used to have. I was so carefree back then, no much worries except for myself. But when I see my kids now, I feel more than complete in an instant. The feeling is just overwhelming. I couldn't be happier with my kids and I couldn't imagine life without them.

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None, I got married bit late like around 30's and so far in my years of existence i really enjoyed my single life . I work so hard when i was still single brought things i want , went to places i want to visit with and go out with friends of times. Right now im really focusing with my family nurturing and taking care of them and that the most exciting part of my life .

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Yes! :( Especially when my husband and I are fighting and I ended up taking care of our baby while he's out there hanging out with his friends. Sometimes when I go out with my friends, my parents would always remind me to go home early because I have a baby to take care of. So many responsibilities that sometimes I really wanted to have a me-time.

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I do have a lot of friends that are new moms say that they wish they could go back to being single and free but immediately say that their are just joking. Though motherhood is indeed a one tough journey, all of them agree to the idea that they wouldnt mind taking the bumpy road because of their little ones.

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At times, yes, I do. It's just that if I were to weigh looking back and seeing/ feeling what's happening right now, I would say that I am in a much happier state. Kids bring so much joy that sometimes words aren't enough to encapsulate the level of happiness that they bring.

I guess every parent has this reminiscing moment wherein we dream of having carefree days and less responsibility. Totally normal. I've been there for several times, but at the end of the day, I wouldn't trade everything for this happiness I get from my little family

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Yes sometimes esp during those days when there's just too much on your plate. But at the end of the day, you realize that despite the chaos, you wouldn't have it any other way :)

Yes. Most of the time. Maybe because I am having a difficult time right now with my husband whom i feel like is having an affair with someone else. :(

There are times that I do miss it, but whenever I think of my husband and my child, I know that I wouldn't trade the life that I have now.