Something wrong with my parenting? My elder Son Everyday keep shouting and lying. I will end up use can and beat him. He likes to talk back, fight his way. I really hate him. I have 3 kids and he is the most I love one. I will try to let him have class on weekend so that he didn't watch Tok much tv. Shouting, screaming. I am so tired and regret having 3 kids. I am devasted after I canned him. My hubby purposely make me angry sometime. I have helper to help on baby but still too much at home. I know it is wrong to use canned but my Son really hard to teach. Shouting and fighting Everyday.

What is there to regret? What can u do abt it? Nothing right? I approach things objectively. Change things that can be change. Things that can't u have to adapt. There will be good days and bad days. I advocate the can. Spare the rod spoil the child. But u need to educate the child abt what is his mistakes. Having said that, each one of ur children have their own personality so u shld see and observe what methods work on each of them. Shouting and fighting everyday is very normal for boys no? I would think it is but of caz there is room for teaching them other ways to communicate and not loudness and might. He might have learnt from the tv or adults at home that pple raise their voices and fight to get their way thru. So u have to see what the family is modeling for the child and what kind of tv they watching - what kind of content. Parenthood no right or wrong. Bring up a child to be a good citizen who can be independent is good. U also have to see the child's age. Don't expect them to have ur level of understanding and thought but u can cultivate