Something wrong with my parenting? My elder Son Everyday keep shouting and lying. I will end up use can and beat him. He likes to talk back, fight his way. I really hate him. I have 3 kids and he is the most I love one. I will try to let him have class on weekend so that he didn't watch Tok much tv. Shouting, screaming. I am so tired and regret having 3 kids. I am devasted after I canned him. My hubby purposely make me angry sometime. I have helper to help on baby but still too much at home. I know it is wrong to use canned but my Son really hard to teach. Shouting and fighting Everyday.

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I think caning is definitely wrong - and while it's good you regret, I think you need to stop it. How would you feel if your boss caned you if you did not follow instructions at work. Your child did not ask to be born - it was your choice to bring him into this world. Caning is an easy way out for a parent. It's pretty much child abuse. How old is your son? I suggest doing the languages of love test online and find out his language of love and then using that insight to come up with a strategy that works for your family.

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