Something wrong with my parenting? My elder Son Everyday keep shouting and lying. I will end up use can and beat him. He likes to talk back, fight his way. I really hate him. I have 3 kids and he is the most I love one. I will try to let him have class on weekend so that he didn't watch Tok much tv. Shouting, screaming. I am so tired and regret having 3 kids. I am devasted after I canned him. My hubby purposely make me angry sometime. I have helper to help on baby but still too much at home. I know it is wrong to use canned but my Son really hard to teach. Shouting and fighting Everyday.

Hugs mummy, it seems like you are overwhelmed by the expanding family and your husband seems not to be very understanding(?). How lld is your elder son? Could he be seeking attention since the baby is born? By putting him into classes during weekend, he may feel that you are trying to "dump" him instead of getting attention and quality time from you. Its a huge adjustment for him too, knowing that more time will be taken away since arrival of 3rd kid. I still salute you for making the decision for having a big family. I believe once they grow a bit older, things might be better and at least you have maid in case you need 1 to 1 with elder kids. Unlike me, I just terminated my second pregnancy because I fully knew I could not cope with two kids and worried for my husband being a sole breadwinner.