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PregnantEDD 8-23-21My husband and I got married last December and now, we are expecting to have our baby boy soon! But this post is not about us. We are still living here with my family. Wag daw muna kami bumukod dahil baka ma-assign sya sa malayo, wala kong kasama habang nagbubuntis. Navy po kasi. So I agreed, because I understood their point.Pero pansin ko nagbabago si mama habang tumatagal. Kung kelan tumatanda saka parang nagdadalaga. I know shes having an affair. At ang siste ngayon, gala dito, gala doon. Pag di sila okay ng bf nya, mainit ang ulo sa lahat. Pag walang pera, mainit na naman ng ulo sa lahat. Knowing na dalawa kami ng kapatid kong nag-aabot para dito sa bahay. Half of my salary is spent on our groceries monthly. Sa kapatid ko ang bills plus allowance ni mama. But recently, we had an argument. Last week, morning, galit sya sa lahat. Nagtanong ako kung anong rason? And unexpectedly, galit nya  kong sinagot. Sakin nya binunton lahat, na may kasamang sumbat na para bang wala akong utang na loob.Lahat ng salary at ipon ko nung dalaga pa ko, ginastos ko lahat para sa kanila. Ngyon lang ako natuto magtabi nang kaunti para samin ng asawa ko. Palagay nyo mommies wala ba talaga kong utang na loob? Mas okay sigurong bumukod na lang kahit pa may possiblity na mag-isa ko sa bahay kesa ganito. 💔😥

Anonymous · Answer

OMG I feel you. I used to handle such situations where laging galit mother ko kapag may problem siya (wala siya affair, her big problem is money, magastos kasi kaya lagi nauubusan). I always ask my father kung ganon na ba talaga mother ko even before I was born, hindi daw. I guess me being adult changed her, and now I have my own family I think she's taking this opportunity to just think about herself. Now, I don't know how was you mother before her affair, pero kasi with my mother kasi ganon siya kapag hindi niya nakukuha ang gusto niya. Once na makuha niya na good mood na siya ulit, para walang nangyari. Wala kang pagkukulang. That's just how they are. Mahirap magisa pag buntis kaya try mo na lang not to mind her, and lay low when you sense that she's not in the mood. Mas madaling pakisamahan ang sariling ina kesa sa iba or kapag pinili mo mag isa baka mahirapan ka.

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Anonymous

4y ago

Thanks mumsh! I really appreciate your advice. And thanks for being understanding on my situation! ❤