hi mommy, i am really sorry you had this kind of an experience here. i just came across your post here, and hence am answering now.
let me just say that i am one of the mommies here on the forum, and i have been here from the start. i have received a lot of help from other parents, and i have also shared a lot of my personal experience and suggestions with them. if you can, i would suggest you do stay around for some more time :) you wont be disappointed.