Abortion months ago

Went for abortion months ago. Was only 3 months PP when i fought out i was pregnant again. Was so overwhelmed with so many things cried everyday went into depression and lastly decided to abort. Now months after, i felt so foolish for doing that and regret doing it and may i never get a baby because i dont deserve it. I need to let this out because nobody knows and husband is not talking. blaming me. I take every criticism because I deserve it

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I will never support abortion, I'm sorry but unless you have medical conditions that you have no choice but to do it. I'm sorry you fell into depression. I know how it feels. Probably it will also be a bad idea if you were to carry on with the pregnancy and neglect your baby. We are humans afterall. As long as we learnt our mistakes, there's still time to make it up for it. Talk to your husband? Ask him for forgiveness, tell him why you did it so he can understand and start fresh. I believe if a husband loves his wife, he will try as much to understand although difficult to make any sense to him. I wish you and husband well. Your baby will come to you, at the right, at the right moment ❤️

Anonymous

3y ago

Much appreciated. Many would condemn but you wished me well. That’s all i needed to hear. This guilt is killing me but thank you.

I think your husband didn’t step up to the plate during that 3 months and that’s one of the reasons why u ended up with this decision. Don’t take it all upon yourself and only blame yourself. He shouldn’t react this way tbh.. if you were that overwhelmed, he should have picked up the slack and relieve some chores or stress factors. But that’s all in the past now. Now focus on your young toddler and have a good talk w your husband so y’all can move on as a family.

Anonymous

3y ago

Thank you. This guilt is killing me but thank you.

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