something get me jealous. FAMILY NYA OR KAMI

Hello po. Need advice lang kasi papunta na sa family. May bf po ako, 3 months palang sa 2nd work nya then sumasahod ng 4k monthly. Then ako naman preggy 7 months, dipa kami kasal. Ask ko lng po kung yong sahod nya is dapat ba ibigay sayo? At meron kasi sabi niya ibibigay nya pero pgdating ng sahod di niya rin binigay. Sahod day, di ako umimik at hinihintay ko kung ibibigay nya. Kung hindi okay lang naman. Usually kasi every sahod nya kumakain kamk sa labas ibihay man nya or hindi. Then diko kinuha sahod nya. Pinabayaan ko lng kasi sabi koo may pera naman ako. Pero may time na diko alam kung magseselos ba ako or what kasi binigyan nya nanay niya tapos ako? Hindi man lang kami kumain sa labas or nagbigay kahit piso sakin. Pero the next day, may pangpusta siya sa basketballworth 1500 at natalo yon. P.s noon, madalas ako gumagastos sa sa paglabas namin tuwing sinusundo nya ko pero nongsiya na may trabaho wala man lang suya a pakiramdam. Kung tutuosin, mas marami ako gingastos na pera ko pampacheck up kesa sa kanya. Kasi inisip ko mas malaki sahod ko kasi kako nalang.Never nga nagsabi na oh pera pampacheck up mo. Sa tingin nyo HEALTHY PA BA? Ano po maiadvice umiiyak nalang ako pag nag aaway na kami.

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You both have to talk about your financial matters nang walang nagagalit. Yung tipong kahit may masabi siya na foul, tiiisin mo, sit through the talk kasi walang mangyayari if every time you have a conversation about money, mauuwi sa away. Same thing sakanya, pag nafeel mo na nagagalit na siya, calm him down muna. Tapusin niyo nang mabuti yung usapan para ma-clear at ma-planuhan mabuti yung finances niyo. For me, it's his sweldo, his own money. He can do anything he wants with it PERO it sounds like to me, hindi alam ng boyfriend mo yung priorities niya. Tell him that that bothers you lalo na he has you and your baby he should be thinking about. Tell him na he should divide his sweldo into: for you and your baby, for his parents and family, for his own needs and for emergency funds. Tell him na pasensya muna but he can't just waste away money for his own luho. Tiis muna. Set his priorities straight. And to you naman, don't stress yourself about this. You did say you have your own money naman. Nakakatampo that he didn't give you even a penny pero don't stress yourself about. Mafi-feel yan ni baby.

Magbasa pa

Anonymous

6y ago

Thanks sis. ☺️

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Home Just Mums po need advice lang kasi papunta na sa family bf po ako 3 months palang