Helper

I understand the feeling as I am also a FTWM with helper. It is absolutely ok, babies will know who is their parents. Helpers will come and go but you are their constant. My kid doesn't even remember who his previous nanny/helper is already. I certainly don't recall who changed my diapers as a baby. 😆

My mum used to be a nanny and the babies stay with her for 5weekdays and only go home on weekends. However, she told me babies know who are their parents and who are not, despite them spending so much time with my mum. So don’t be discouraged. It’s never too late to start building relationship

It’s okay! But because you’re expressing concern, I would also encourage you to make the most of the time you have with your baby:) As long as you’re bonding with your little one and spending quality time, they’ll have a longing to be with you.

if they spend more time with the helper, they will definitely be more attached to them..but think of it positively. it means the helper treats your LO well..

Yes, it's OK. Shows that your helper is taking good care of her. Don't worry. Try to spend more time with baby and interact more with baby.

It's perfectly fine nothing to worry about(: It would be more worrying if our kids dislike the helper!

It's alright for me. It's better than they dislike the helper

Spend time with your baby whenever you can

Need to work 9-6pm

Yes, its ok