Hi Parenttowners!! We want to plan a baby but we are very scared of all these baby related challenges. We have read and heard a lot about "How baby will change your life". Need mental support. Please tell your opinion!!

I think that most importantly husband must support. I heard many stories about husband totally heck care when baby is born..i can't imagine myself in that situation. with my hubby support and without any other help, the first few months is already challenging for me...but it only gets better and now my baby is 15mo :) if husband is not supportive I wouldn't really want a child.. really depressing....i can imagine....raising a child is not fully a mom's job..dad has to play a part too. other than this, I couldn't think of anything else stopping you to have a baby. of cos lifestyle changes but it is manageable and you derive a different kind of joy which you can't possibly find out there :) all the best!!!