Do you parent like your own parents? What did they do to you that you now do to your own kids?

I am thankful to them for bringing me up. There r certain traits about them tat i dun like. Too protective.. i remembered when i was looking for a job during e teenage days, my mum would help me to call them up instead.. Want to go overseas with them or with my frenz, cannot. Want to go eat tiz, cannot. Everything cannot.. after giving birth, i quarelled with them more.. baby cry abit, mum will run over to him anxiously. Bathe muz bathe in her manner. Cannot put lotion on e face.. muz wear socks. Muz carry umbrella to shelter baby under e hot sun. Till now, baby can eat solids already. She will say, dun let baby eat fruits/banana etc.. will cause phlegm.. too many to list... hate e way they r. How to instill independence like tat? Fortunately, i'm a very independent person as i'm e eldest among my 3 other siblings. I wouldnt wanna do tat to my kids..