Other people say baby can help save failing relationship. But I dun get it. To me is got baby become worth. As can say my husband doesn't like kids. Always like to throw to his mum side to take care. But I doesn't like his mum side to take care. Cos they will keep carry the baby . can carry up to 2/3 hr if baby dun sleep. I know elderly like baby. But this is too much. And I have no right to say them. If I say them. My husband will quarrel with me. I'm alone taking care baby. But when going back my mother in law house. My lo come back doesn't want to sleep. Keep crying non stop. Just wan to be carried. I'm really tired of this. And husband saw and he doesn't want to care.

To have the thinking that baby helps to save the marriage one of the worst thinking ever. Never attempt to bring a life when the foundation of the relationship is not stable. In fact having a child will only increase friction, not enough quality time for communication and worse extended family (if you dont like them) will get us annoyed for baby handling issues and our spouses gets sandwiched in between, causing distress, etc. I think baby not wanting to sleep is common, as my son is also the very sticky kind that must sleep together, need skin contact, extended breastfeeding... I don't mind carry my son as long as I can cos they really grow up very fast. Like now I feel like carrying him, but I can only last like 10 secs because he is too heavy for me already.