Okay lang ba pilitin ang mga anak nyo to do an activity just because you want them to learn it? Naaalala ko kasi when I was little my parents forced me to take piano lessons. And while I did eventually fall in love with the instrument, I can't help but wonder: paano kapag ayaw talaga nila?

I guess okay lang to introduce several activities to them and from there, you can gauge what activities your kids find interesting. If you think it will be helpful for your child, continue to push it until he learns to love it, but you can also tell if he has no interest at all. You can shift to a different activity related to his interests.